This is my first post. I am a man - I wasn't sure whether to post (some threads suggested men shouldn't) but I wanted to take my chances as I am hoping a mum can help me understand if my wife and I should be worried.
My wife is 36+4 with our first. The midwife recently referred her for an unexpected scan for two reasons:
- suspected breech; and
- growth scan (the baby had been in the 95 percentile consistently but has dropped to 50th since 34w).
We had a scan today and the baby is not breech (phew) but they were unable to check growth as that is a separate unit/scanner apparently. This was a bit unsettling as we had been gearing ourselves up for answers today. We now have a growth scan at 37+1. Does that timing sound ok?
It felt to me that the midwife was sufficiently concerned to request an immediate scan believing it would cover both issues. No one else though has even looked at the growth graph since.
It will only be 7 days between the initial midwife appointment and the growth scan but feels like an eternity. Specifically my questions are:
- Should I/we be doing more to get another appointment sooner? (I have asked but I could jump up and down more)
- Is slowing growth after 35w "normal"? (I read a lot of conflicting medical advice on this and would be good to hear from mums' experience).
I am generally not a worrier but we haven't had a great experience with our hospital so far so anxiety is a little heightened. I should add that the heartbeat is fine and baby's movement is normal.
Thank you in advance for your time and sorry if this is a basic/trivial/silly concern.