Hi, I'm pregnant with my first so mat leave and stuff is all new to me. My firm seem to want me to tell them the dates I want to go on mat leave ASAP except I'm due due til mid-June so I have no legal obligation to let them know before early March which is absolutely ages away! I have no idea when I want to start my mat leave, it's way too early right now to make a decision on that surely
? I'm only 14 weeks.
The other thing is I have HG and unfortunately I've been signed off work since week 6 and I'm only getting SSP which is peanuts, can someone explain how/whether this will affect my mat pay? I'm only entitled to SMP as it is so things will be tight.
Another question is I'm pretty sure I want to return to work part-time after mat leave if possible - I work FT 5 days a week 37.5 hours a week but I'd be looking to reduce this to 2 or 3 days a week post-mat leave if possible. How do I talk about this to my employer? Should I do it very soon, wait until I'm on mat leave, wait until near the end of mat leave...? I don't know what's for the best. Also, they could just refuse my request, right? I don't think they would as there's a lot of people who work a few days a week in my office, but still.
The final thing is there is a very small possibility we may end up relocating while I'm on mat leave...which would mean I would not be able to return to my job at all. In such a situation, am I ok not to give in my notice until near the end of my mat leave, as otherwise I would cease to receive SMP and have to faff about trying to claim MA wouldn't I? It's unlikely this will happen anyway but it's a possibility.
TIA 