If you had a surprise first time round did you regret finding out the sex second time round?

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2nd pregnancy and I have my 20 week scan on Thurs. We didn't find out with my DS but tbh I found it a bit of an anticlimax and I was so I'm shock after a fast labour it didn't even register.
I keep changing my mind about finding out the babies sex on Thurs (obviously if it is possible). I think it's nice for everyone around you if it is a surprise, but it would definately make it easier for me to organise things, especially as I'm convinced this one is a girl.
Did anyone regret finding out 2nd time round? Did it spoil your experience of birth?

I'm still undecided. If you say you don't want to know, do the sonographers still make a note of it? Not sure I like the idea of the medical professionals knowing something about my baby that I don't.

No they don't crmblebee.

we didn't find out bring on 20 weeks time!

Thanks for persuading me not to