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If you had a surprise first time round did you regret finding out the sex second time round?

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scaredofthecity · 12/12/2017 19:15

2nd pregnancy and I have my 20 week scan on Thurs. We didn't find out with my DS but tbh I found it a bit of an anticlimax and I was so I'm shock after a fast labour it didn't even register.
I keep changing my mind about finding out the babies sex on Thurs (obviously if it is possible). I think it's nice for everyone around you if it is a surprise, but it would definately make it easier for me to organise things, especially as I'm convinced this one is a girl.
Did anyone regret finding out 2nd time round? Did it spoil your experience of birth?

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CrmbleBee · 15/12/2017 18:55

I'm still undecided. If you say you don't want to know, do the sonographers still make a note of it? Not sure I like the idea of the medical professionals knowing something about my baby that I don't.

Oysterbabe · 15/12/2017 19:14

No they don't crmblebee.

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scaredofthecity · 15/12/2017 20:04

we didn't find out Smile bring on 20 weeks time!

Thanks for persuading me not to

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