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Cabin Fever - Struggling to Entertain dc

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User45632874 · 11/12/2017 17:52

I posted yesterday about not venturing out in the snow. I have been outside today - stood in the sunshine but not actually left the driveway.
Both DCs have been home because pre-school/secondary schools have been closed.
Elder dc has at least been out sledging with some friends this morning for a couple of hours then home for a movie with younger DC this afternoon.
She also took younger dc out to play in the snow for 20 minutes this morning. Then I did craft activities with younger dc whilst elder dc went out.
I'm 25 weeks pregnant, quite a large bump and scared of going out walking/driving in the ice etc. I used to love being home in the holidays with the dcs but quite honestly haven't felt like baking with them or anything really (I would have been running up and down the slopes sledging with younger dc if I were not pregnant and always on the go). I feel bad about it but I don't feel up to doing very much and now I feel housebound with this snow (really fear driving on icy roads).
I was bracing myself for the Christmas holidays (which begin at the end of the week) but now it just feels that at this rate there will be another week of missed pre-school added onto it. Elder dc is much easier to occupy - as she can at least visit a couple of nearby friends but younger dc is naturally on the go, fizzing from one activity to another (though she will play for some periods of time on her own) and if I took her out and about, I would very likely end up literally running after her. As mentioned, I usually (pre-pregnancy) would run her ragged going out and about but feel I am struggling with this at present. DH works full time and is banking his leave to use when baby comes along - and I may well need a rest, so think this is a wise idea, he also has the Christmas week off on holiday so it isn't as tricky as it seems but meanwhile cabin fever with this snow is going to drive me insane shortly. There is still snow lying around which I believe will turn to ice overnight with plunging temperatures. I know things wont seem so bad tomorrow but I guess I just feel very frustrated. We have no extended family and most of the people I know have older children so aren't in the same boat. To make matters worse there was a parent off in the village who is also a teacher, obviously the school they work for was closed and there were pictures on facebook of him and his whole family sledging and really enjoying the snow - jealous I guess because none of this pregnancy has seemed like much fun to me (high risk pregnancy, following late miscarriage) and watching others having fun makes me want to wallow in my own pity that bit more (though I know that hopefully, this will all be worth it in the end). Typing this is saving my sanity, DH has also return from work which is also saving my sanity, sorry about the whinge but I do feel so much better for it!

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User45632874 · 11/12/2017 17:53

Wow, sorry for the epic post!

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LadyRenoir · 11/12/2017 18:14

I was meant to go out yesterday for an appointment. Fell over right in front of the house (luckily managed to prop myself with my hand). That's as far as I got. Got a cab to work today (I don't drive) because the pavements were so icy and unpleasant, and might do the same tomorrow. I'd rather fork out a few quid than risk falling over and hurting myself and the baby. So I know the feeling. Usually I am fine moving around in snow, but in pregnancy i found it a lot more difficult and my balance is not as good.

User45632874 · 11/12/2017 18:47

Yes, LadyRenoir. paying for a cab sounds very worthwhile. I hope you are not too shaken up by your fall x Although the baby is usually protected, it is very anxiety provoking and I just don't want to take the risk (I know others are determined to carry on as usual) but having experienced a late miscarriage, it has made me super risk adverse.
This is totally not like me - usually the dcs get taken out here, there and everywhere but my youngest dc who has just turned 4 is a handful and has no fear and requires a lot of energy to keep safe. I'm just going to have to admit defeat for the time being me thinks...

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LadyRenoir · 11/12/2017 19:22

Nothing wrong with keeping safe.
I have a few friends who were pregnant, were going out, travelling, ice skating and whatnot, doing stuff I would not like to do now. And that's fine too. But if it makes you feel uncomfortable, there is no point pushing yourself. It's obviously difficult if everyone looks like they are having a time of their life playing in snow (easier for me, not a fan_), but it's like this with everything. My non pregnant friends will be enjoying cheese board full of unpasteurised goodness, chorizo and sushi and other delicious things during our work meal out, while I will be eating tomato soup and baked fish, making sure it's thoroughly cooked. It's only for a few months, and it's worth it :)

User45632874 · 12/12/2017 11:01

DD back at pre-school tomorrow. We are just taking a break from fun with glitter and it's only 11 am!

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User45632874 · 12/12/2017 11:04

Missing older dd today who has gone back to school. Occasionally, she will lead activities with younger dd (when we can get her away from the screen) take her out in the garden etc. I have always made sure that elder dd does not become a carer for her younger sister but now, it is useful to have the 7 year age gap between them!

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