Quick background
I work only part time but in a very stressful, busy, demanding job that's short staffed. So taking mat leave at 29 weeks.
Out of work I obviously of sch runs for DS, clubs etc. The normal mum stuff. Dp does a fair bit too however he works full time and is also self employed for evening work. So I just do it.
My mum is always going on that I should do less etc etc.. But I actually enjoy doing all the stuff I do, whether that's with DS. Around the house or whatever.
I have been having little to no sleep at night, again the norm pregnancy stuff and that's all.
Anyway my mother was saying, well you'll be bored when your off on maternity leave, but you can take me here there and everywhere.
So I said we'll I won no be I have DS birthday between new yr and baby arrival. And obviously get everything washed and ironed etc.
Plus I can sleep in the day ( I seem to sleep In the day perfectly fine for some reason)
She got uppety and said we'll that's just lazy sleeping in the day. You can't do that when baby here... Well a) I know that and b) actually a one off when baby naps I can nap if needed
I feel annoyed by this, as in one breath she's saying to slow down, always having a pop that lack of sleep ' isn't normal and to see someone' ( I know it's normal lol)
But on the next she's got shitty as I have said I can sleep in the day if needed... I don't mean everyday but on the more exhausted days.