Hello,my name is Beth, i'm 26 years old and 39 weeks pregnant. My pregnancy background is a bit sad..what i mean is, i had a 6 years old boy with c-section in 2011 he's healthy and happy chap. Second pregnancy 2014,my baby daughter was put asleep while still in my womb because she had really bad malformation and there was no hope at all that she could survive after birth, it was triploidy, is an extremely rare chromosomal disorder..of couse i was the "lucky one" :'( , i was almost 6 month.
I get pregnant pretty quick,but i end up with a miscarrage at 6 weeks. And now,here i'm, 39 weeks pregnant with a baby girl.. and really upset with the hospital and my counsultant.
I had a sweep last thursday that didn't work at all,the consultant said that i'm 1cm dilated.. this woman doesn't listen to me, she didn't even took time to read my note, she asked if my second baby was ok? I answer... yeah,she's dead... silence.
Anyway, i was suppose to have a c-section this monday, but in the end i decided that maybe is not really the best option for me...recover time, stay long time in the hospital... i know that they don't induce the labour if there is not a serious medical issue, but what about the mental issue? I can't sleep, i can't be relaxed, i'm always scared that something can happen, i need to have this baby for my mental health... but she said that if the sweep doesnt work i need to be induced on the 17 of december when i'm going to be 42 weeks pregnant, this woman is crazy! Was ok for her to do a c-section at 39 weeks, but if a want to have a natural labour i have to wait till the end? What about the c-section scar? That doesnt matter anymore? I told her that i've got my mum here helping me till the 15 of december...but she doesnt care! Help me ladies because otherwise i'll hit her soooo hard, she's gettin on my nerve and i'm feeling really bad.