High risk for Down's, Edwards and Patau's

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Hi all, just after any similar experiences or a hand hold really.

I got the dreaded call from the midwife today and am high risk for Down's (1 in 110) and Edwards/Pataus (1 in 130). It has really knocked me as I never actually considered those possibilities. We had already talked and Down's is not a big deal for us but would rather be prepared so we can start planning. With the other two I don't think I am not so sure

We are going to pay for the IONA test first to try and get a better answer and then if still high risk probably have amniocentesis. I'm just really devastated that this pregnancy has been crap so far and doesn't show any sign of getting better

Sorry for a long and depressing post. Please give me your honest thoughts and experiences if you have them.

Curlie thanks for updating us, so pleased for you! Weird about the sex result though, mine was just printed on the results form they sent me! Never mind hopefully you can find out at your scan if you still want to know?

Laura great news, it sounds much more positive now so fingers crossed you and your baby will have excellent care

@1987Laura My closest friend was born with her bowel and intestines outside of her body 32 years ago, and is absolutely fine. Imagine how much more advanced medical science is today! I will be keeping my fingers crossed for you.