Apologies for the long post if it’s nothing...I’m a FTM, finally 22 weeks after previous miscarriages so safe to say I’m nervous!
When I was 20 wks i went to the EPU with a suspected ROM, Dr did a speculum test and said ‘yes I think you are leaking’...literally the worst words that struck fear into my heart.
Was told to go home with antibiotics and come back for 20 week scan. The scan itself looked fine and fluid levels were normal.
My question is this...afterwards I thought there might be some kind of follow up but the nurse just said go home and try to get to 24 weeks...no follow up scan or appointment or check, just go away. I rang every department and spoke to everyone and anyone (as had my lovely midwife) but everyone I speak to seems to think I’m some hypochondriac and that I don’t need any follow up....am I just being neurotic? Could the first Dr’s diagnosis be wrong? She also said I had severe thrush but the swab came back negative for thrush is infection...how reliable is the speculum test? I’m so so scared of getting an infection as the original Dr who saw me said it can cause pre term labour or even death. She scared me to death and now I can’t speak to anyone to our my mind at rest and I’m so so upset and anxious...we have tried for so long to get here and I’m terrified it’s going to be ripped away from me xx