Hi.
From Ireland, week 12 of pregnancy and recently found out that one of my twins has an abnormality. It's been an agonising week since we found out. We have with much heartache and soul searching that selective reduction would be the best solution for us and the healthy twin. However, it is not allowed in Ireland so we must travel to UK. Information the hospitals are permitted to provide in Ireland is minimal also.
So we have been relying on online research this week which is hardly ideal.
I would really appreciate your advice on where is recommended in UK to present us with best chance of keeping the healthy twin?
Any consultants and contact details that we could get in touch with ASAP?
What are the cut-off limits in various hospitals / clinics? ( (I had a brief conversation with Kings Hospital in London which seems to get good reports online and theirs' is 15 weeks or you leave it until very late in the pregnancy - which we would struggle with even more than we are at the mo).
We are beset with worry and chagrin at the mo, with a real feeling of helplessness given we live in Ireland.
Your advice would be really appreciated.
Thanks