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I feel so horrendously ugly

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Hannabee123 · 01/10/2017 17:32

I feel massive I feel ugly and I don't feel at all pretty. My confidence is way down and my partner doesn't even really say anything to reassure me. I don't even feel like any kind of intimacy and I just feel awful all the time. Please someone help me SadSad

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Branleuse · 01/10/2017 17:39

:(, how many weeks are you?
I hated pregnancy x

ChocolatePancake · 01/10/2017 17:44

He probably doesn't say anything because you look beautiful to him and he doesn't understand why you would feel that way. You're making a baby so you're going to look different and you're going to be going through big changes, but you're lucky enough to be carrying a baby inside you and thats wonderful Flowers

Hannabee123 · 01/10/2017 17:50

28 weeks and my stomach looks like it's ripping with stretch marks and I feel like a moose Sad

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Littlebatcalledlucille · 01/10/2017 17:52

I bet you don't look ugly at all (you daft lump :p)
If it helps I know how you feel, I'm currently pregnant too, and feel like utter shit about myself I'm a mess.
I totally get the intimacy thing also!!
I'm sorry I'm no help, but I know how you feel!

Expectingbsbunumber2 · 01/10/2017 17:52

I'm also 28 weeks and have days like this too. My partner is so reassuring which helps a lot. Like others have said he may not realise how your feeling unless you've said something to him.

Hannabee123 · 01/10/2017 19:27

I don't know how I'm going to get through another 11ish weeks Confused

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princesssparkle9985 · 01/10/2017 19:38

Hannabee I have felt the same at times, mostly toward the last month. What helped me was making an effort with the things I could control like skincare, straightening my hair when I usually never would, making effort with my makeup, painting my nails. I would treat myself to something small regularly, something that always fits like a statement necklace even from Primark...at the moment they have loads of different patterned bright kimonos, I found wearing loose pretty patterned kimonos and cardigans easiest. I'm sure, as has been said, that your partner sees you the same as always. Have you explained how you feel? I had some periods of being really down about and rejected him being intimate or affectionate because I felt sorry for him since I felt so ugly but those are low points and remember also that your hormones are all over the place. Be kind to yourself.

ijustwannadance · 01/10/2017 19:49

You just need to remind yourself that it's only temporary.

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