How to stop worrying about m/c?

[Caz10]

I know logically that if it's going to happen it's going to happen and nothing I can do to change it either way...but I feel like I am spoiling early days of pg by worrying about a m/c further down the line. I am scared of not being able to handle the upset. I know it might not happen, but it is hard to be positive. I also know it would not be the end of the world, at least now I know I can get pg, and eventually we would get over it and try again. I know someone who had 5 before having her 2 lovely (and healthy) kids. But this is turning into an irrational fear which is making me teary and nervous, I'm just so terrfied of it happening. Does anyone else feel like this? Or am I a total nutter?!

Thanks Skiddadle that was nice.

Thank you, you are all wonderful! Glad to hear I am not alone in the worrying. sillysillysally that is exactly what I am doing, aiming for each next goal at a time - currently it's my midwife apt when I will be 7 weeks, then a LONG 5 weeks till 12 week scan. I'm going to speak to her about the possibility of an early scan too, if only to keep myself sane.
I'm off on holiday just now and I think it is bad timing as I have nothing else to occupy my mind and time is passing soooo slowly! Back to work on Monday and hopefully that will make me less pre-occupied!
twocatsonthebed congratulations on your beautiful daughter after 3 mc, you were very brave to keep on going and it has clearly been worth it!
I really really worry that I just wouldn't be able to cope with a mc but I guess you find the strength.
Thank you all again!