advice with partner

[bectoriA08]

:) first time mum looking for some advice. my partner and i got back together but we weren't together long before i fell pregnant. i dont feel he's on the same page as me, as he gets quite stressed and it comes across as if life will be over when the baby arrives. we do argue and when things get heated he says some quite hurtful stuff.

has any one got any advice ? any info would be great .

is there someone impartial that you can both talk to? Though there's no excuse for being nasty

My advice would be to just talk to him and tell him how hurtful the things he's saying come across. He needs to get a grip, doesn't really sound like he wants this baby and is taking it out on you, is that really someone you want to be with? Partners are meant to be supportive and share the excitement not make you feel bad about it

thanks for the advice . i think i will just have a chat . its just nice to hear from an outsider that it isnt just me

how did things go?

yes i have talked to him and he has listened and taken things on board feel alot better thank u

You're welcome, fingers crossed for you

You're welcome, fingers crossed for you.