Basically my partner works really really hard and I completely understand as I use to do the same job he's a dairy farmer he sets of for work at 5:30am and then isn't home till 7pm he works Monday to Friday and then for 3 hours on either Saturday or Sunday so I understand he works hard and for our baby who's due in 5 weeks. I'm currently not working due to being sacked when I told my employer I was pregnant(I know this is illegal) so I'm currently not work and he's the one supporting us I've given up my car as I can't afford to run it and we live in the middle of nowhere A bus runs every hour from 9-6 mon - sat. I cook, I clean and I do ever other chore in the house the only thing I won't do is clean out his outside dogs 1- because they'd bounce all over me and knock me over and 2- because when we moved he made me sell my beloved toy poodle as he hates her. He comes home walks his cow shit boots all the way through the house to do the dogs, whilst winging at me because he's now got to clean and feed his own dogs, he's currently winging at me because 1 I've had the heating on and two his pants aren't dry (these pants can't go in the dryer because there a wax rip proof material) apparently I'm selfish and ungreatful he pays for everything In the house and why should I have the heating on I should 'man up' it's not cold. I get £230 a month from UC which £75 goes straight to my phone bill and the rest goes to him. I have to ask for my bus fare or for a lift which he then complains at as it's his fuel! I'm at my wits end I don't know what to do. Also I'm wanting to start applying for jobs once baby's here and want to plan to go back to work once she's 3 months old as I can't cope with him having this control but all he says is he will support us and I'm not going back to work until she's 3 otherwise I'm a bad mum and not putting the baby first. What do I do?