At 44 I currently find myself 6 months pregnant with a relationship in tatters. I have grown up children and never imagined I would be pregnant again but am, with a partner of 3 years. He has always been very guarded emotionally and not what I would describe a warm man but we got along great and had fun. He really wanted a baby and even had a vasectomy reversal. however since I have became pregnant things have gone from bad to worse.
He is no support to me emotionally. Complains that I am always tired and hardly have sex! Says I do nothing for him! We don't live together but he stays at my house most nights and gets dinner cooked, packed lunch for work etc. He is so moody and sulks for days hardly speaking to me. This makes me anxious and sad. My family have noticed his behaviour, and really don't like him.
Last weekend he went out and came home drunk. He was locked out and banging on my door. When I woke up and answered he started verbally abusing me, calling me a fat c**t, dickhead, boring bastard.... Next day he wasn't even sorry and wouldn't apologise. I'm so sad and scared for my future. Am too ashamed to turn to friends as I feel foolish for some reason, perhaps because I got pregnant to this guy.
Its odd but when he's not about, I miss him...then when he's around I resent him. I just want the best for my baby. Is that leaving their daddy or trying harder to make things work?