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Pregnancy

Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Working away/long distances when pregnant?

6 replies

Hannabee123 · 28/08/2017 15:22

I drive alot for work and some days I can be a few hours away from home. I'm worried about being far away and my employers aren't being very sympathetic. I suffered severe exhaustion in my 1st into my 2nd trimester and no matter how much I told them that I was struggling, they continued to push me to my limit sometimes expecting 17 hours out of me to which I left the job early as it's illegal.
I have no work life balance and the thought of working away as I reach the 3rd trimester really is worrying me. Can anyone give me some advice or has anyone had something similar?
Should I tell them I need to be local and refuse work which requires me to travel alot further. My partner keeps telling me to join a work union for backup Sad

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SheSaidHeSaid · 28/08/2017 15:29

Are you in the UK? If so, your employer is required to undertake a risk assessment for you which will cover things like this. I had mine as soon as I told my employer I was pregnant and it includes working long hours, late working and driving distances. I have to tell my manager if it's difficult for me in any way pregnancy related and they're meant to assess and adapt my role.

Hannabee123 · 28/08/2017 15:38

Yeah I'm in the UK and the risk assessment I had to fight for and they wrote down I wont work past 10 at night which even that they have pushed :(

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SheSaidHeSaid · 28/08/2017 16:00

Hmm, it doesn't really sound right. I think you need to tell them how it's affecting you and make sure you back it up in writing, an email summarising a meeting or something.

If things get really difficult for you in wondering if your midwife can help in any way or give you advice?

mummabubs · 28/08/2017 19:27

They should update your risk assessment- it's not a fixed document and should be reviewed regularly. My boss was good at saying the right things but then raising an eyebrow if I tried to point out how work could be adjusted. I was based 53 miles from home which was over an hour commute each way in rush hour and I had to drive a lot during the working day. Around week 20 I developed back pain and the driving was making it a million miles worse. I ended up being signed off at 28 weeks which solved that issue and although my back is bad it's so much better than when I was working. I'd ask your employer to update the risk assessment and stand firm- I had to and know it didn't feel comfortable doing it but I felt it was important that work listened to me.

Hannabee123 · 28/08/2017 19:47

I guess I'm going to have to try and stand my ground abit I cant see myself coping with long distance driving for much longer. They constantly push my working days and I feel like I have no life.
Can't really afford to be off sick as they pay around 80 pound a week which is nothing :(

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hellomarshmallow · 28/08/2017 19:49

You should definitely join a union: best source of advice and support.

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