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Partner doesn't seem attracted to me anymore and talking to other women

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emilylaura · 18/08/2017 21:58

I'm 22 weeks, it was a shock to us when we found out I was pregnant but we are both happy and so excited, but I've noticed my boyfriend just doesn't seem to want to have sex with me and I noticed on our iPad he'd downloaded an app where you can "chat meet and flirt anonymously" I didn't go on it because I don't wanna see anything that's gunna upset me. And before I got pregnant he would always go around to his female friends house 2-3 times a week and I also noticed when she found out I was pregnant she almost seemed pissed off. That didn't stop her inviting him around though he goes around more often and they've also been going out for meals together just them 2 which aggravates me. I just don't know what to do. His behavior is inappropriate and makes me feel so depressed but I don't think I can do this alone ☹️ he says she's just a friend and I do believe him but he came home the other day with makeup all over his jacket - he says it's because he gave her a hug goodbye; but looks more to me like she's nuzzled her head into his chest from the amount that's on there.

I feel so depressed and alone by every time I mention anything he just says I'm paranoid and hormonal

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meltingmarshmallows · 18/08/2017 22:04

I agree OP it sounds as though this man is brazenly cheating at worst, at worst showing zero regard for your feelings. There's no reason he would be at someone else's house 2-3 a week never mind a women. I hope you can find he strength to call him out on this and make sure you're not stuck in this situation long term.

mysecret321 · 19/08/2017 04:58

Omg! This is so sad ypu should be looking forward to meeting your baby together and not looking at his jacket having to ask for explanations :( so sorry to hear that op but tbh to me it sounds as though he is in some form of a deeper relationship with that woman (more than friends is what I'm trying to say) get rid while you can as you and baby deserve better:)

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