Please help - i have a 3 month old son
randomly did a pregnancy test yesterday i found clearing out the bathroom cabinet while husband away it came back POSITIVE. first response. my period is not clockwork but would be due on mon/tues i guess.
we had unprotected sex ONCE. we are getting married on thursday, my husband gets back on tues.
i worked out if i am pregnant i would only be 3 weeks, and was out drinking heavily last weekened at my nephews christening hwen i would have been 2 weeks pregnant.
i was SO excited about having a wedding, ocnnecting wiht husband, going on honeymoon having a cocktail on beach etc.
i also need to return to wokr in NOVEMBER.
so everything is up in the air.
i am so scared - too scared to do another test. wedding is THURSDAY. i have been having LOADS of caffeine as mentally planning the wedding. i want ot feel like a bride and have champagne and relax. i had bad PND with my son, and am finally the other side of that and looking forward to kickin back etc.
could it be night nurse? i took it until WEDS i think of last week, so stopped weds before the sat i took the test, then read it can cause false positives?
do i wait ot see if period comes before wedding?
do i tell partner? risk is it will ruin wedidng for him, worrying about money, or worse he may go mad on the beers thorugh the stress.
do i not tell partner, and retest and deal with the information and tell him after wedding and just have 1 glass of champagne?
do i not re test. deal with it after wedding. just carry on as normal and assume it is not positive, and deal with it after wedding?
please please help. i feel so terrible. i feel guilty to my son as i wont be much of a mother to him with a second. i feel guilty to my husband on financial pressur.e and mostly i feel SO guilty to my unborn child. if it is in there. as i am already wishing a little bit i hadnt got into this silly mess...
PLEASE hlpe. anyone had a false positive from night nursE?