Hello, written a few posts on this. Bit of an on going nightmare. Baring in mind I have major anxiety as it is. And now have a high risk MCDA twin pregnancy I'm worrying constantly about, plus worries about telling work now... potentially today!?
I think I am just super worried, as I've explained before I've been here since January this year, only this Tuesday I had my last 6 month probation review, paper work was signed by myself and my line manager... Ideally I wanted to wait until tomorrowto tell him, as I couldve come in first thing, and said I'd received my down syndrome bloods and they were fine, and that's why I'm telling now... (I took last friday morning off for 12 weeks scan) I'm 14 weeks now, and ideally telling him after the scan would've been best, but I thought I would wait until after review, anyway, now I have heard he is OFF tomorrow, and potentially monday, but I am having scan twice weekly and consultant visits so all appointments everywhere that start next week so I NEEDED to say this week really... So as he is off tomorrow, I am going to have to say I went home at lunch and saw the letter/pretend my other half text me he had seen it, and tell him THIS AFTERNOON. I was not ready for this, but know it needs to be done for appointments sake, taking time off, just nervous!?!?!?! And JUST had my review, freaking the hell out aaaaahhhhhhhh help me. Xx