I apologise if this is in the wrong section?? Anyway me and dh never have any visitors really. Perhaps maybe once or twice every three months?? My grandma and grandad came round on dh's birthday in December 2015, my mum and dad will nip in now and again but they are probably the people one or twice every three months!!! Anyway so my problem (and I've been told I'm abnormal and selfish for this) is I don't want the world and his dog (relatives we don't see for years and years) being bothered and visiting us because of the baby. Am I being irrational?? My mum said but people will bring gifts - not to sound ungrateful but I don't need gifts?? Obviously there is people who we see regularly (not at my house) - my friends, hubbys friends etc that I would say come in and have a cuddle etc. But I don't want everyone acting like flies around [emoji90] - that includes my mum as well. I will have to stay in hospital for a few days so will people just visit me there?? On the plus side our street has permit parking only mon-sat 9-5 so maybe that will keep people away???!!! God I sound awful but just wondered if anyone else has felt like this??? Hubby feels the same way and we hatched a plan that we would hide in the bathroom if we didn't want to answer the door!! Is that evil??
Am I abnormal for not wanting visitors??
Johnskymberlina · 09/07/2017 12:31
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