Hi ladies,
I am currently 11 weeks pregnant with my third child. I have a daughter who's nearly 3 and our son was stillborn at 37 weeks last year. I have a counsellor for that and I am in a good place with the stillbirth, that's not why I feel blue.
Please tell me I'm not the only one who feels a bit fed up being pregnant? If our son was here I wouldn't be having another baby. We do really want this pregnancy but I'm just a bit down.
I really love a drink and obviously that's off limits now. We have a great social life and it's mostly at the pub but we aren't there more than once or twice a week. My husband has a beer at home after work most days and I've just left him at our local with my extended family as I'd had enough lime and soda.
My husband is fairly lazy in all aspects and if I suggest we go out on a date etc then he says "that would be lovely, arrange it and we'll go" when really I'd like to be taken out.
I think I'm talking myself round here and know I should probably talk to him about doing something where we don't end up at a pub, maybe the cinema or a nice night away somewhere. He works in agriculture so he is about to get very busy with the harvest and we've got to move house in August (we rent, not out choice to move) so I think it's all just a bit crappy. I am nervous about getting this baby out alive too so I guess that's always in the back of my mind.
Has anyone got any good ideas for something to do with husband where I won't feel like I'm missing out or any suggestions for a pregnancy cheer up?
Thank you x