sweetheart....sorry you got so scared
yes, rupture is a real and possibly fatal risk...but it is rare..really rare...
caesarean site... has great info re VBAC, HVBAC and planned c.s
might be worth a look....
look, i had a VBAC, and as oyu know ,it is a topic close to my heart...at the end of the day, it is your decision, but i would hate to think you went for a c.s due to being frightened and not having a balanced view of the odds
NICE guidelines are clear that a trial of labour should be offered and vaginal birth is preferable where possible
it is hard , when you are faced with a consultant, who presents you with the 'your baby is at risk of dying if you do this' , as you cannot make an informed decision about it....
i asked my obs, how many ruptures he had seen, and he went quiet.....it is a risk, it is rare and it is rare that a uterus would rupture without any warning
don;t want to look like i am talking you into anything, or telling you to ignore the risk, but if presented in a more balanced manner , maybe you would have made a different decision?