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Hand hold please.

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Mammabear31 · 04/05/2017 13:54

I'd appreciate some hand holding. Currently 7weeks but started bleeding this morning. One big red clot then brown, been cramping for about half an hour now. I've had a mc before (5yrs ago) and this is very similar, but I am booked in with the EPU at 4pm. DH is stuck at work, I don't know what to do or how to fill the time between then and now.

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Moregilmoregirls · 04/05/2017 20:09

The waiting is hell, I had both brown spotting and bright red bleed with my DS who's now 9 months old. When I rang the docs they just said test again in a week. Be kind to yourself this week OP, keep posting for support. I hope you get good news

MummyM33 · 04/05/2017 20:14

I'm so sorry to ready what you're going through Mammabear. I'm going through a very similar situation. My early scan was booked today for Monday morning and I just don't know how I'm going to get through the next few days.
I've been googling like crazy and whilst I am wiping brown blood and passing a few clots this does happen occasionally as a PP said and end up turning out with a healthy baby so we must keep positive until we know otherwise x

MadeForThis · 04/05/2017 20:28

Fingers crossed for you x

Mammabear31 · 04/05/2017 21:03

The spotting seems to have stopped now, but I bet it will be back tomorrow. Going to try and get an early night.

Thank you all for your support. [Star]

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MagnumAddict · 04/05/2017 21:17

Hope you get some much needed rest tonight

Mammabear31 · 05/05/2017 08:44

Morning all. Spotting has stopped bar a small amount of brown when wiping, but I'm getting period type cramps so have No idea what to expect. Going to go into town and get some bits then relax at home for the rest of the day.

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Mammabear31 · 05/05/2017 13:27

I'm thinking about things. According to my dates I should be 7weeks 1 day today. On the scan yesterday, there was nothing in there - just a round bubble with nothing in it. Even if my dates were slightly out, it would only be by a week. So I should have seen something if there was a viable pregnancy, surely? I've googled 5 week and 6 week scans and they all show a little speck of hope, but my "bubble" was empty.

There's no hope, is there.

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MagnumAddict · 05/05/2017 14:27

It's such early days, I really don't know but I think if they were positive there was no hope they would have told you. There must be a chance otherwise it would just be cruel to keep you waiting for another week.

I know it's tempting but I'm not sure Google is your friend right now. Have you got any plans this weekend? The busier you can keep yourself the better I think

Mammabear31 · 05/05/2017 14:57

Bleeding heavily now. It's over.

Thank you all for being here.

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MagnumAddict · 05/05/2017 15:07

So so sorry

Have you got someone with you? Anyone who can come round to put the kettle on?

MrsH128 · 05/05/2017 15:16

just reading through this and my heart is breaking for you OP try and stay strong xxx

Mammabear31 · 05/05/2017 15:18

I'm alone, but I prefer to be at the moment. Will be picking up DS in an hour, can't wait to give him a big squidge.

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Mummamayhem · 05/05/2017 15:27

I'm very sorry.

MagnumAddict · 05/05/2017 16:42

Enjoy the cuddles with your son tonight x

PollytheDolly · 05/05/2017 16:45

Xx

Frazzled2207 · 05/05/2017 17:46

I'm so sorry x

MummyM33 · 05/05/2017 18:16

I'm so sorry to read this 😞 thinking of you x

MrTurtleLikesKisses · 05/05/2017 19:30

So, so sorry.

MrTurtleLikesKisses · 07/05/2017 21:48

How are you doing today OP? Thinking of you.

haveacupoftea · 08/05/2017 00:51

Sorry for your loss

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