Basically as the title suggests...
Our first bubba is due in October, I'd always said I wanted to know the sex, DH feels just as strongly the other way. He feels it's one of the few true surprises you can have in this world and whilst that is lovely I feel that I'd really like to know so that I can mentally adjust and build more of a bond with bump. My logical head knows that it would be really tricky to consciously keep it a secret from him and I certainly wouldn't want to take away his opportunity for a surprise. So I suspect I won't find out as hard as that will be for me, but I was just curious to know if anyone else has found out and been able to make it through the last few weeks without telling their other half? Thanks all! 😊