I was wondering if anyone has recently had any issues. sorry if its TMI but I wanted to explain why I am worried
I had the Copper coil inserted about 3 years ago. Before the copper coil I had light periods lasting 3-4 days however since it was inserted I have very painful ovulation and period pains and I last usually 5-7 days and changing towels and tampons every hour. I was due on my period on the 4th February and on the 8th I started to have a little spotting. Literally over 2 days there was slight spotting hardly noticeable and then it stopped. I've had nothing since. No pain nothing.
Ive never missed a period apart from when I was pregnant with my daughter and I knew immediately I was pregnant from before I was even due on. And when I look back I had a severe cold about 3 weeks in. I feel nauseated headaches and Im currently off work with a very bad cold everything I had with my little girl. But and heres the big BUT the pregnancy tests are all negative!!! (All 5 took the last one on the 20th feb) I had hormone blood tests done on Friday 17th Feb and my thyroid and glucose are fine. The doctors said its stress but I have never missed a period and I've been relatively calm compared to most of my life !!!
I'm driving myself mad. I know if I'm pregnant I would want to keep the baby but we wouldn't be able to afford it. We're just managing to get ourselves out of debt and I can finally see the light at the end of the tunnel and maybe one day be able to buy a house. I know it would destroy my partner. He's the most loving supportive excellent daddy in the world He does everything for our little girl and I wouldn't want to put him in that position because I know he would do what I would want to do and keep it to himself. I don't really want any more children but I am a massive believer in fate and after losing a baby already I don't think I could have an abortion because of the emotional impact. I know it's all 'what if' and i could just come on next month but I'm terrified