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Pregnancy after a Prem Baby

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FraggleRock77 · 19/02/2017 21:07

Just trying to seek some kind of reassurance, plus equally interested. First DS born at 29 weeks, luckily a healthy three year old now. Did anyone go on to have a second/third/fourth prem baby or did you make it to term? Currently pregnant 13 weeks! Limited traffic on the prem threads x

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cornflakes91 · 20/02/2017 04:30

My first was born at 39 weeks no problems, my second was born at 32 weeks due to PPROM leading to spontaneous prem labour. They never found a reason for the PPROM, no infection detected or anything. In my third pregnancy I was full of panic thinking she would be prem too,!was consultant led and had cervical length scans at 17 and 20 weeks as well as swabs for infection neither which found anything and she ended up going overdue to 40+2! Currently 17+4 with DC4, feeling nervous again I guess just because there was no reason found for DC2 being prem but fingers crossed I make it to term again and so do you Smile

MiniMaxi · 20/02/2017 04:47

Only have the one but wanted to say good luck, Fraggle!

Our son was 6 weeks early due to a placental abruption. Immediately afterwards we felt as if we wouldn't want to risk it again. He's now a happy 6 month old and talk sometimes turns to potential future siblings... So I wonder the same thing Smile

Emz32 · 20/02/2017 06:02

My first baby was born at exactly 35 weeks just after my waters suddenly went at 34+6. It was all quite traumatic & it took us a few years to contemplate another baby. Just had our second baby & I was consultant led, had 3 extra growth scans & a cervical scan. She went to 40+2 & was born after a successful sweep. I was ready for her from 35 weeks & was quite fed up once I went overdue Grin.

Oysterbabe · 20/02/2017 09:15

I'm worried about this too. DD born preterm after PPROM. I never found put why but I did have thrush, could that have caused It?
TTC#2 and will be an anxious wreck.

10storeylovesong · 20/02/2017 09:46

Following for some good news stories! My ds was born at 27+2 due to a large blood clot on my placenta. This started at 21 weeks and I was in and out of hospital from then until he was born with heavy bleeding. They never found a reason for it.

I'm currently 7+5 after 3 years of ttc and 4 early losses. Everyone around me wants to wrap me up in cotton wool and it's already driving me mad!

Whitelisbon · 20/02/2017 09:56

First baby born at 29 weeks after PROM and placental abruption.
Second dc went to 42+3 and almost had to be dragged out.
Third and fourth (twins) was planned c section at 37+2.
Fifth was planned c section at 39 weeks.

Rarotonga · 20/02/2017 10:22

My niece was born at 23+5, they never found a definite reason for this but they thought it was probably an infection.

Her little sister was born at 39 weeks. My sister had regular cervical length scans to check all was well.

Good luck, really hope all goes well with your pregnancy.

RueDeWakening · 20/02/2017 10:32

My 2nd was a 31 weeker (now 7 and fine), but my 3rd made it to not quite 38 weeks, when I had a planned section.

Have to say the pregnancy was stressful, and I didn't prepare anything until a couple of weeks before my section date as it felt like I was tempting fate iyswim.

whirliebird · 20/02/2017 11:12

My first was born at 34wks (no reason found) my second was born at 38+3 and my third was born at 39+5. I'm currently 35+1 with baby number 4. Who knows when I'll pop this time Grin

whirliebird · 20/02/2017 11:14

Try not to worry. If there was no specific reason for your first being early then there is no reason why you would have another prem birth. I spent too much time in my second pregnancy worrying, when in the end, everything was absolutely fine. X

percypeppa · 20/02/2017 13:57

My first was born at 29weeks, never found out why and I'm currently 41weeks with my second so the complete opposite! I had extra monitoring throughout this pregnancy. Good luck!

FraggleRock77 · 20/02/2017 18:48

Thank you for all the feed back. Like posters have said, sometimes there is no rhythm or reason. They think mine was due to my cervix so under a consultant and pending a possible stitch. It's hard not to worry though and I'm only 13 weeks! Eeeeek!!! X

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Autumnleaves105 · 20/02/2017 18:54

Also following for good experiences! My son was born at 27 weeks due to me having sever pre eclampsia and HELLP syndrome. My placenta had died and he had stopped growing at 25 weeks. He was doing ok my but my liver and kidneys were starting to fail so I had emergency c section and was in hospital for 10 days, narrowly missed a blood transfusion! They said at first I couldn't have any more, now they've said I can but will be closely monitored and prob won't carry full term.
We are hoping to try for number 2 in September but I am pretty nervous about what might happen.
Good luck Flowers

adventurepanda · 06/10/2017 11:42

Following for experiences, had PPROM at 19 wks 6 days last August, baby was fine but had to medically terminate a week later due to concerns around development :(
Now pregnant again, about 8/9 weeks, consultant said if/when I got pregnant i could have an early scan, currently jumping hoops to get it which ironically is more stressful! At this rate will be at 12 week anyway!
Not feeling as anxious as i thought i would but i guess once you've been through one of the worse case scenarios you realise you can cope with the s%^t that life throws at you.
They couldn't find a reason for the PPROM, i did have a rubbish time in that pregnancy and a few bleeds so maybe that was connected. Consultant said i could have a stitch in next pregnancy.

micropreemiemum · 06/10/2017 14:10

I had my first at 23+0 weeks, currently 16 weeks pregnant with #2...do not want the same to happen again, i definitely relate x

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