Am I suffering second infertility

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Okay... I am 17 years old me and my boyfriend had our beautiful daughter 4months ago I was breastfeeding I stopped after two months. My period returned a month after she was born whilst I was breastfeeding I have had 4periods since and have noticed my cycle is now 36days... I have not got pregnant me and my boyfriend have had unprotected sex everyday and still no pregnancy? I am scared that I might be suffering second infertility or how long does fertility to return after birth?? Someone please tell me there is a reason

That's enough from you ... I only deal with positivity

Weeping with laughter at that.

You're on the wrong site.

Can you afford another maternity leave already OP?

It'll probably cost upwards of £300 for childcare for two small ones, I take you are on a good salary then and can cover the rent /mortgage easily enough.

Plus saving up for a wedding I expect, as an unmarried mum you'd be quite vulnerable financially if your relationship ends or your DP passes away suddenly.

Lots of responsibilities for a 17yo.

Best of luck.

I have also reported this thread. If You Google the definition of infertility and look at the NHS site, it clearly says 84% of people fall pregnant in the first year... go to your GP after the first year. Not a few months.
I wish you well op but please be sensitive to others on this board. Many of us cannot conceive without invasive ops/medication so will understandably find your post naive.

I've stopped reading these comments so everyone stop replying now 😂😂 this is ridiculous now isn't this a question and answer type of thing that's all I wanted was a bit of advice not people telling me they would be ashamed of me ? Very rude and I don't have time for this I have got my answer and no one is trying to jump a housing list am a educated married gypsy if you have to know I have a culture and we do things different... judgmental people are not cute

I hope people do not get offended by this😩😌 that was not my intentions god has you ❤️He has a plan everything happens at the right time xx 😘❤️

Your age is absolutely not the issue, OP- your naivety and insensitivity is. Asking whether you have secondary infertility after trying for a mere four months after giving birth is, in my mind, like asking a forum full of people with a serious illness whether you should worry about a runny nose. All you have to do is google 'secondary infertility' and 'time it takes to conceive' and you will see general responses indicating that there is no need to worry. Obviously, they are based on averages and so Google can't give you an answer, but neither can we.

Many of us on here having been trying for many, many years, not months, so please have some sensitivity and grow up.

Finally, comments like 'God has a plan and everything happens for a reason' are, to me, particularly insulting. Tell me- why has God decided that I still shouldn't have a child after three years of trying and three failed IVFs. What could be the possible reason for this? Actually, don't answer that...

God has a plan for your plan it will happen when he intends to 😌

I understand you guys are probably offended so you are not replying very nicely

If you believe that God has a plan for everyone, then why are you asking a forum whether you have secondary infertility? Perhaps you should just sit back and wait for his plan to unfold...

If god has a plan then what the hell was his plan with me 🙄🙄🙄

Over all 10yrs ttc - that's infertility - in that time. Was put on NHS ivf list and then husband died 😢 Met a lovely man who was happy to ttc but as has kids in his 20's - lost all rights to NHS ivf

Roll on 4yrs

4 failed private ivf. Spent £27k 😱😱. 5th a fet worked and 32w preg

Would love to know why god would give me that plan !!!!

You are 17 got preg easily and now after 4mths think you have secondary infertility

You really have no idea

Personally I would say secondary infertility is maybe 4/5yrs of ttc after having a baby , with no whiff of a bfp

tho others would say a year

So basically no you don't have si and as others have said saying this on this board does come across as insensitive

I'm pretty sure this is a troll post BUT 4 months is not very long at all to be trying and have not fallen pregnant.

I'm not sure if it's a troll or just a very stupid person totally lacking in compassion but either way, just ignore and move on.

I totally didn't mean to offend anyone that wasn't my intentions I didn't really know what this was for I'm sorry if I've offended anyone by this I haven't even read anything on this site I just jumped and questioned.

Takes a big person to say sorry

Enjoy your baby and think about a 2nd in a year or two

💓💓