I'm in unbearable pain just getting out of bed or turning over in bed or even just putting my underwear on and lifting one leg. I feel a lot of pressure there but it has pain along with it too. It calms down if I don't leave the house for the day but if I go out shopping I'm in pain for the next day or two. Walking round the house like a crippled old women is not much fun! Is there anything I can do to even ease the pain? My lady bits feel so swollen 