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WARNING Picture... am I having a miscarriage??

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NannyGR · 18/10/2016 21:33

I'm so confused right now.... am either 71/2 or 10 weeks pregnant (unsure of dates/implantation) had slight spotting last Wednesday but was gone within the day. Now had sex last night and have been bleeding since this am, has gradually got worse during the day... have attached picture of latest time (sorry if tmi) I just need advice... can't get through to ebu and am waiting for a call back from 111. Also must add no other signs or symptoms of miscarriage no cramping ect!! Please help me through this... this is my first pregnancy after trying for over 4 years and I can't bare to think the worst!!

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NannyGR · 20/10/2016 07:04

So this is definitely happening.... more blood today and alight stomach cramping! Maybe it's just not meant to be.......

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sonlypuppyfat · 20/10/2016 07:42

I'm so very sorry for your loss, look after your self

CookieLady · 20/10/2016 07:47

I'm so sorry. Flowers

LottieL · 20/10/2016 07:50

I'm so sorry. There are no words to comfort you, nothing that anyone can say to take the pain away but I'm sending love from a place of understanding. All I could do when I went through the same was bunker down, get as comfortable as possible and ride the tidal wave of emotions as they came. Be honest and open about how you feel, and talk to whoever is there to support you if you need to. Most of all, be kind and gentle to yourself and only do what you feel you are able to.
All my love.

crayfish · 20/10/2016 08:28

Gosh I'm so sorry and you really don't seem to be being treated compassionately by your GP. I had bleeding at 8 weeks and was sent for a scan no questions asked. I'm so sorry you're going through this, big hugs Flowers

Sgoinneal · 20/10/2016 11:54

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Chinnygirl · 20/10/2016 14:01

I'm so sorry. I know how you feel, we have been trying for3.5 years and had a miscarriage last saturday. Sometimes its difficult to stay positive but we just have to plough on, don't we? Most people have children in the end and get to be happy so we can do it too. Keep your hopes up, I wish you all the best!!!

LHReturns · 20/10/2016 14:52

How are you doing Nanny? Flowers

NannyGR · 20/10/2016 16:32

Surprisingly okay!! Spent the first 24hrs in bed constantly crying, but I'm feeling okay now, obviously I'm devastated but I'm trying to look on the positive side... after 4 very long years of trying atleast I now know I can fall pregnant, I can't let this bring me down I need to get past it, it's going to take time but I will get through this!!!

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LHReturns · 20/10/2016 16:36

That is good to hear Nanny. You are very strong and as you say - you have proved you can do this. We will be waiting to see you reappear on the Pregnancy board ASAP. Please be so kind to yourself for now though. You need it.

phoebe2016 · 20/10/2016 17:43

You will get through this Nanny and like you say, at least you know you can conceive. I have been through this myself and it is heartbreaking when you want it so much. Rest, recuperate and then come back stronger. Thinking of you

Thingymaboob · 20/10/2016 19:06

I have been following this thread as I'm currently suffering a mc myself. I never thought I would feel this bad. I'm a paramedic and I've treated loads of women who have had a mc / suspected ectopic and I've always thought of it in a really practical medical way: it happens to many women, it's very common, many women go on to have healthy babies. Until it happened to me. Have spent the last few days in bed lying in my own filth. Managed to have a bath today as my husband ran it and spent an hour persuading me to get out of bed. I'm drained and feel so miserable.

LHReturns · 20/10/2016 19:12

Thingy I am so sorry to hear that. I'm glad your husband is taking care of you as you so deserve it. You are completely normal in how you feel. Flowers

phoebe2016 · 20/10/2016 21:21

Sorry to hear you are suffering atm as well Thingy, i have been where you are too, so i know the pain all to well. Just know that it will ease as time goes by and im sure when the times right, you will go on to conceive again. Sounds like you have a lovely caring hubby and that is worth a lot. Wishing you well Flowers

Nataliegarcia28 · 15/11/2019 10:21

Am I having a
Miscarriage? Hello I’ve been not having a period for about a month and couple days but last night I got a heavy flow it was dark red with some clots and sometimes can be light red it hurts a little is this a miscarriage or normal for pregnancy?? Or maybe a regular period ? I will post a
Photo soon

Breonamaxey · 15/05/2020 12:28

I took a pregnancy test 4 days after my missed period and it can faint then I made a appointment to the same dr I went to with my 2 other children I have 3 all together but this one is so different from the other 3 I had so every pregnancy is different because after I made my dr appointment the next day I was constituted then I was bleeding when I wiped. I bleed for 3 days so I thought I was having a miscarriage so I didn’t show up to my appointment then three days later I stopped so my fiancé told me to make another appointment to remind you I was bleeding so heavy like a normal period so in my mind I had a miscarriage but when I went to my dr the told my I was 4weeks and 5day pregnant so I know ppl go off what the dr tell them or what they went through put our bodies are all different what was told to me I was bleeding like that because I was really early in pregnancy and you could also bleed like that if your period usually heave and the egg is there your blood will flow like your regular period this google stuff go off of what they use to but every pregnant woman go go through the same thing now I’m 2 month pregnant and healthy I just want to let y’all know looking on here will stress y’all out and make y’all have a miscarriage just believe our father up above and he will answer your prayers one more thing my cousin had her period her whole entire pregnancy and she have 5 kids love you all my Queens anything you want to know I’m here to answer your questions I have 3 angel about to be 4and they was all different experiences

Breonamaxey · 15/05/2020 12:32

I know I messed up sorry lol was typing to fast

zscaler · 15/05/2020 12:39

@breonamaxey I don’t think you should be posting this on an old thread where the OP lost a much wanted pregnancy. It may bring up upsetting memories or cause distress to the poster.

Breonamaxey · 15/05/2020 12:43

You rite just for other who have questions

suhanarika · 15/08/2021 20:10

Urg**ent Need help ....

i am 10 weeks pregnant and got positive results before yesterday and till now i don't have any appt with my dr...i will book on Monday... yesterday i got bleeding and clots little bit with cramps ..from yesterday night i m completely on bed rest.. today i talked with my dr, she prescribed me progesterone 100 mg suppository at night time...what is my cances can i save my baby with progesterone suppos?
Thanks!

Scirocco · 15/08/2021 21:39

@suhanarika you'd be best posting your own thread on the board to seek advice - this is an old thread, plus posting here could upset the original poster. Good luck and I hope someone can advise.

Shaunz13 · 27/12/2023 16:19

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Scirocco · 27/12/2023 16:29

@Shaunz13 if you read OP's posts you'll see the answer. You may wish to ask for your post to be deleted.

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