Measuring 2 weeks behind early pregnancy x

[oscarsmummyy]

Hello mummies✨
I need abit of advice please x
I had a scan today I was meant to be 7 weeks 5 days pregnant but I'm only measuring 5 weeks😔 they said I have a healthy sac and a thick uterus lining.. Has anyone else been put back so far but everything's been okay? I'm having an emergency scan in 10 days to see if there's any progression, should I keep hoping everything will be okay or just accept that there's gunna be no progression?😔 I saw a little pulse but when i asked they avoided my question!!

No clots is good. Are you in any pain? If no clots and no pain, it's better. The scan might not show much, but they could see where the bleed is coming from. Fc it will be good news x

How are you now OP??? Did the bleeding resolve? Xx

I have no pain, no clots. I am still bleeding lightly but midwife said don't worry as its mixed in with discharge and a lot of people bleed and can bleed the whole way through xx

I had this - please rest as much as possible - at this early stage you want the bleed to clot, as there is a risk it could pull away the pregnancy while it is still so small. I had one diagnosed at 7 weeks and had about 5 episodes of very heavy bleeding until about 12 weeks - thankfully the clot has finally gone (at 18 weeks!!) so it can take time. Also hydrate hydrate hydrate - blood can irritate the sac which you don't want, but lots of water will keep the uterus from contracting if irritated.

Yeah take it easy :) glad its much lighter. Hopefully it'll tail off soon. I hope you're okay. Stay positive :) xx

I have just bled a bright red bit of blood, looked like a tiny tiny clot, smaller than my little fingers nail... I am so scared xxxx

Oh mummy :( a tiny clot could still be okay, might be the bleed trying clot, how is it this morning? Have you rung your EPU? I have everything crossed for you xxx

How are you???? Xxx

I had a scan yesterday.. Not good news baby hasn't got a heartbeat anymore they think the cause is because the haemorrhage is too strong and the baby just couldn't handle it last week there was a heartbeat and now there's nothing.. Baby stopped growing at 6 weeks 2 days but will always be my baby no matter what, one day we will meet

Oscarsmummyy so very very sorry to hear your sad news. Please be so kind to yourself.

I'm so sorry. Yes, look after yourself lovely xxx

Thankyou, I'm hoping maybe at my next scan there will be a heartbeat again, maybe it's just a mistake but I doubt it is I have a d&c booked for Monday but I don't think I will make it until then, the bleeding is so heavy but hardly any cramps.. A d&c would be best as i have my little one to look after still, we were so happy to find out we were pregnant we hoped and prayed that we would get pregnant and to see a positive test again but now this has happened xx

I know it's difficult and I prayed that would happen too but unfortunately it doesn't work like that :( if they see a heartbeat and then don't see one I'm afraid it won't come back, they'll have done everything to check the viability of your splodge (sorry that's what we called ours) but we always remember our little splodge, his/her little journey was only short but everything happens for a reason and it just wasn't their time. It's hard to think of now but you can keep trying and with any luck you'll catch again before you know it. Look after yourself and keep an eye on the bleeding. If it gets too much go back and they will just have to do things earlier. You can't continue to bleed at such a rate until Monday. Lots of hugs xxx

I have passed the baby baba was so so so small we wanted this baby so bad but I guess like you said, it wasn't their time life can be so cruel, I feel so empty, lost and broken xx

Also, thank you Hun and Thankyou for all of your advice and help xxx

You're so welcome, I'm just sorry I can't help any more. Be strong for your family. Your little one was loved, however small they were. Much love xx

I'm sorry for your loss oscarsmummyy

I had to have a d&c yesterday morning as quite abit of tissue was left and my bleeding was stopping when's a good time to start ttc again? Don't want to try too soon but not sure what the earliest is and thank youxx

You can try again whenever you feel ready to. Doctors suggest waiting a cycle for dating purposes but there's no scientific reasoning behind it apparently.
I'm so sorry you are going through this, from personal experience I know how earth shattering it x

Did you realise your name is on the scan photo? you may want to report and have it taken down as it is identifying. Sorry for your loss. xx

Ahh okay, thank you.. Not sure if I'm ready and will have to wait a few months and thank you! I completely forgot about that, Thankyou, I'll report it now xx

I have no idea how to report it lol xx

Done it now xx

Just to let you know oscarsmummyy that we have removed the photos of the scans you posted as they contained identifying information. Wishing you all the very best. MNHQ

Thank you :) I wasn't sure how to get them removed, I forgot about them containing identity, thank you x