The father of my baby and I aren't together and have never been a couple. I don't know if it's my hormones but right now everything he seems to do annoys and irritates me. For example, today we went to pick up some chairs from my grandparents who live an hour and a half away. They won't take any money so I took them out for lunch and paid for them, and the baby daddy to say thank you for taking me and getting the chairs. A few weeks ago when I organised this with him he said to me that he would allocate today solely for me, but when he picked me up he said he had arranged to do a job (he's a self employed sparky) for someone around 6pm and he had to get back. Then while we were out he called them and arranged to be there at 5pm. So during lunch while I was talking to my grandma he leaned over and told me that we had to leave as soon as we got back to their house so he could be back, which upset my grandma because we don't get to see each other very often.
He's been frustrating me recently because he has social anxiety and we went away with some of my friends and instead of going to his room to calm down he decided to leave and then send me a message after he'd gone. He also tried to get a door open (which was locked by security) so he could go and have a smoke on the balcony, and then insisted he stick his head out of the window if he couldn't smoke in the room. I keep asking him about his E-Cig and he got quite snappy with me telling me I can't make him stop smoking it has to be his choice (he smokes like a chimney!) to which I snapped back at him that I wasn't trying to get him to stop, I was trying to help him ease his nicotine craving. He is always doing roll ups on whatever surface he's near. And he's 11 years older than me and cannot put his phone down! If it beeps he picks it up and checks it immediately, even during lunch earlier!
Is the level of annoyance my hormones or am I right to be peed off?