Is my baby my partners? Please help me.

[Peppermint0248]

Please could I have some advice, I'm sick with worry and it's keeping me up all night.
I got pregnant with my boyfriend fairly quickly 2 months into the relationship (failed contraception) I'm now 33 weeks. However we got together at the end of August 28th but regrettably I was sleeping with a few other people before him (which I know was wrong but I was single, it was very unlike me). Which meant I conceived at the end of October. The dates all add up, I had periods before hand but I can't help but make myself worry that it isn't his baby, even though all the dates add up to him and I wasn't pregnant before being with him. I think because it happened so quickly and I was sleeping with a few other people before hand it's just on my mind. Has anyone got any advice please? I can't sleep at night, it's on my mind constantly and I don't know what to do.

It was absolutely not wrong for you to have slept with two people when you were single. You say your partner knows about this. Has he said anything to suggest he thinks it was wrong? Has anyone else criticised you?

I hope that with help you can let go of this totally misplaced guilt and enjoy the rest of your pregnancy.

I've nothing new to add, just more reassurance that there is nothing wrong with you having sex with other people. I definitely did. I think it makes me a better person and certainly not a worse one. Like reading, visiting castles, eating different food.

Agreeing with other people that there's absolutely nothing wrong with having sex with other people when you were single. I've nearly always been in long term relationships and now married but was single for a few months before meeting my husband and slept with 2 different people - was great fun and glad I did it. No guilt here

Agreeing with other people that there's absolutely nothing wrong with having sex with other people when you were single. I've nearly always been in long term relationships and now married but was single for a few months before meeting my husband and slept with 2 different people - was great fun and glad I did it. No guilt here

I'm 33 weeks today and due 22nd July so we'll be having babies about the same time

DS2 was definitely conceived in October (I had a 9 month old at the time and this is an anniversary baby) and most definitely not August.

I suffer from anxiety and am on medication for it, this medication has been increased during this pregnancy as everything going on means it's completely normal for these feelings to increase. The GP was very supportive and the medication is completely safe, I would encourage you to speak to your GP and maybe put some support in place before baby arrives. Be kind to yourself