I gave birth in December 2014 in the Royal after being registered at the southern I.e. I had all my scans at the southern but then decided the Royal would be easier for me to get to so changed hospitals.
I was living in the west end so I figured it would be easier to not cross the river if we needed to get their in a hurry.
So I can't tell you about the southern, but I can say that in no way was I hurried out of the labour suit post birth, nor were we left alone in the suit for any significant time.
My baby came out blue with a wee difficulty breathing so we didn't get to delay the clamping, happily I was on the diamorphine by this point and didn't mind!
I was very very lucky and apart from the quick clamping they were able to follow my birth plan. We didn't get very far down the 'scale if intervention' the NCT are so keen on. I am pregnant now and fingers crossed I will be lucky again. I felt listened too even though I didn't particularly like the first midwife.
Post birth I had plenty of time for skin to skin, baby had a feed, I had a shower (of sorts) while my dh held the baby, midwife brought tea and toast. I think we were there for a few hours?
After, I was put on a ward of six. I don't remember if my husband came to the ward. I love him but after being in active labour for 17 hours I just wanted to sleep.
I wanted to breast feed and found being on a ward really helped - the rules in the PRM say that you can only have the curtains drawn around your bed if your feeding, so as i wanted privacy I basically stuck the baby on my boob every time he opened his mouth and shut the curtains. I really believe that helped us get over the difficult first three days.
Sorry for the essay.
I'd wish you luck but you all sound like you are all very prepared and won't need it.