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my first pregnancy......terrified of everything!!

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kirst134 · 10/02/2016 21:21

I have just found out that i am pregnant with my first baby :) probably about 4/5 weeks. I am excited, but terrified of EVERYTHING! Every time i feel anything in my stomach i don't know if it is right or not. I have been to see my gp they have refered me to the midwife (he wasn't much more help than that!) . Has anyone any advice for me? I feel useless already 😯

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ksuzan1975 · 18/02/2016 11:14

Unfortunately I had a miscarriage on Monday Sad So gutted and I am now wondering if I will ever have a baby... The doctors keep pushing us to have IVF and a donor egg but don't want that and besides no money!
So just a bit depressed but my husband and I have decided to try again straightaway so hopefully we will be pregnant again soon. Hope you are all well and loads of baby dust xxx

edwfaith · 19/02/2016 11:46

Relax, enjoy it, you'll miss it when it's over (mum of 4 week old boy) :)

BeckyNW · 21/02/2016 21:38

First of all congratulations!

I'm in a similar boat, 5 wks pg, NHS website calculator estimates due 20th Oct. The receptionist at my GP was lovely on the phone and wished me congrats. She advised me I didn't need a GP appt, but to fill in a referral form for the midwife team which I did on the Monday. By Friday I couldn't contain myself and rang the midwives to check if they'd received the referral. They hadn't, but took a self referral over the phone. It was a great opportunity to feel like I'd talked to a proper professional about things, and ask any initial questions. I am so glad I phoned the midwife team myself, much more reassuring than the GP surgery.

So now it's just waiting for them to contact me, I'll be offered a booking appt at 10 weeks and a scan at 12 weeks. I am terrified about mc, especially as I'm an older first timer, but nothing I can do except avoid the obvious risks. I actually feel brilliant, very happy and healthy, but probably sickness etc will kick in soon.

Wishing you all the best.

Pinkheart5915 · 21/02/2016 22:36

Congratulations Flowers

I am currently pregnant with our 2nd baby

Enjoy the excitement and enjoy every second of the pregnancy.
Let people fuss over you

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