Hi, in 2005 when I was in my early 20s I had a series of abdominal surgeries to treat a gangrenous appendix. Unfortunately the first few operations were exploratory because the hospital didn't investigate my condition properly and they panicked which led to complications, including a perforated intestine and peritonitis.
Four operations later, I was told to have children earlier rather than later in case I had complications such as adhesions on the fallopian tubes. Still in University I wasn't quite ready to think about kids, but now I'm 30, my husband and I are thinking about getting pregnant and I am deeply concerned about my prospects. I know I have bad abdominal adhesions and I had an incisional hernia in 2006, which they repaired with a mesh, so I'm worried about getting pregnant and also carrying the baby because of the hernia and weak stomach muscles. I feel quite isolated, because my condition is complicated and I just wanted to know if anyone else has gone through anything similar and if so, is there anything you can share about increasing the chances of having a healthy pregnancy for yourself and your baby and actually conceiving?
Thanks for bearing with me on this long post!