Kicsr, you poor thing, I hope this thread hasn't sent you into panic mode! There is every chance your bub will change position before or during labour. Even if not, you will be given the best care to help you. Have you attended ante-natal classes yet? Or done a birth plan? Let the hospital staff (assuming you are going to give birth at a hospital!) know what your preferences are, and ask what options of pain relief etc they have available and what you are allowed to bring. An oil burner is wonderful (make sure it's electric or they won't let you use it - naked flame + gas and all that) with lavender oil. If they have a CD player (most do) take your favourite music with you (start listening to it now, I swear my dd recognised The Phantom of the Opera the first time she heard it! ). The tennis ball in the small of your back is a godsend, both before and during labour. A hot water bottle or other heatpack is excellent too. A bean bag or exercise ball allows you to get into a forward-slouch position, which is much more preferable than lying down. Like susanmt, once I was on my back on the bed, that was where I stayed (unfortunately - I'm sure it slowed things down!)
Yes my dd was OP too. The back pain is what seemed to dominate things, I don't even recall feeling the abdominal contractions! (It was quite a new experience when I went into labour with ds!) Started out in a (very) hot shower, then walked around for a while, before going to the beanbag. I didn't like the gas personally, didn't seem to help much. I had been so sure I didn't want pethidine, swore black and blue I wouldn't use it, but when the doctor asked if I would like some I couldn't say yes fast enough! Made me very woozy, I guess it took the edge off. Dd was born after an episiotomy and ventouse - labour was about 5 hours from when they broke my waters.
I guess my advice would be: stay positive, stay focussed, practice your breathing (it does help so take it seriously), learn relaxation techniques and stay flexible. By this I mean don't set your heart on how your labour will go or be too rigid about what you definitely will/won't have (eg pethidine, epidural), or you will feel let down if things change. Remember, your labour will be unlike anyone else's, just as your baby is unique and special. And the most important thing to keep in mind is that at the end of it all, you finally get to meet your baby! All the best, keep us posted.