who actually enjoys sex in pregnancy??

[littleraysofsunshine]

I want to know! I just seem to have lost it.

This is our fourth and it's been a rough time the first three months... Exhaustion too but I don't want to keep putting our love life on hold.

all 3 pregnancies I cant bear to even be hugged most of the time, let alone anything more! feel bad for DH but I cannot bear the thought!

I do make a big effort to get back in the saddle as it were asap afterwards, usually around 8-10 weeks.

I do have SPD though so even if I did feel up to it I think it would hurt too much!

No interest at all in penetrative sex- it's just too uncomfortable. Plenty of 'manual' going on though- both alone and with husband!!

My sex drive has probably gone up since getting pregnant. It dipped with morning sickness, but has otherwise been pretty consistent.

It's a bit cumbersome in the third trimester, but I'd say if anything sex has been almost better during pregnancy as my hormones have been so crazy.

I've totally gone off sex!

it was the same with ds, and for the entire year that I breastfed ds.

then we had a 1 month window when I was crazy for it, but we conceived and now I'm crossing my legs again... poor dp!

My husband says 'it feels wrong' to have sex while i'm pregnant - i'm not impressed!!

Don't enjoy the struggles of sexual intercourse much, in fact at 38 weeks, its impossible. However orgasms are absolutely delightful and so intense during preg, my libido is insane! So you get the idea, no actual sex session but a nice fumble with hubby everyday is just what the doctor ordered

I have zero sex drive at all in the evenings... I go to bed to go to sleep... then have very racy dreams and wake up gagging for it... 33 weeks, hope this lasts till the end. It is very much the same every time due to position limitations, but we are still getting it!

It was great . The worry about getting pregnant / not getting pregnant was totally removed :)

My first two I wanted it all the time this one I keep going between I want sex and I want it now to wanting to kill dh as it just feels horrible having foreplay so I end up shouting at him to go away even though the idea of sex was great but the getting there made me change my mind.

Its a funny thing, first pregnancy I didn't want it at all, it felt repulsive for some reason (or maybe it was just my ex ). Now several years later, it's my second with my lovely new dp and I want more sex but I'm too knackered to do much about it!

One question though, how do you DIY in a hairdressers?!