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just a rant, sorry all..

8 replies

Minniemouse94 · 28/10/2015 16:23

MY PARTNER IS LIKE A MALE VERSION OF HIS MOTHER AND IM STARTING TO DESPISE HIM!!

My mother in law is the most vile, confusing, shovernistic, cow ever!
we told her I was pregnant, what does she say? 'Oh for god sake'
I tell her my mum is buying the pram, I'm apparently 'ungrateful',
She tell my partner to come to hers as she needs him at the times I need her the most, she blurted out to the rest of the family that were expecting when we asked her not to, whenever I say about feeling a flutter or growing pains she tells me to not be so melodramatic and to get over myself, the only time she ever wants to know me is when she needs her hair cut, any money we want to spend on baby clothes, etc.. She says it's because my partner went over his phone bill (bunch of lies!!!).
And now my partner is turning into his mother and it's worrying me that I'm falling out of love with him, he can't even support us while I'm temporarily out of work, please tell me this is normal and a lot of people have 'Mother In-laws From Hell'??? X

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Minniemouse94 · 28/10/2015 16:24

She takes any money we want to spend on our unborn child as apparently 'my partner went over his phone bill' I meant, lol

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cranberryx · 28/10/2015 16:42

How does she take the money? Surely she would only be able to do that if she is the one subsidising your DP, or if he has given her the money?

Are you living with your DP? How exactly has he started becoming like his DM?

I would be very wary of sharing any information with your MIL in future as she seems unpredictable - how far along are you?

VimFuego101 · 28/10/2015 16:51

How did she 'take your money', unless your partner allowed her to? he needs to step up and stop letting her walk all over you. If he doesn't want to do that, then frankly you need to run for the hills. It will only get worse once the baby is born.

NerrSnerr · 28/10/2015 16:56

How did she take your money. If it was your money it's theft!

Jelly101 · 28/10/2015 16:58

She sounds awful! You have my sympathies!

Runningupthathill82 · 28/10/2015 21:54

How did she take your money? What has your partner's phone bill got to do with his mother?
And how is he turning into her?

If I were you I'd be trying to put myself and my baby first, starting by trying to make myself financially independent of him.

Oysterbabe · 28/10/2015 22:00

I also don't understand how she took money off him. Does she pay his phone bill?
Also, I'm probably being dim, what does shovernistic mean?

acquiescence · 29/10/2015 13:36

I presume op meant chauvinistic

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