About other people.
I'm 34 weeks and being induced at 37 weeks ( 3 weeks today yay) due to gd and other health problems.
I have had enough lately of people commenting on my size, today a woman in sainsbury's asked me if I was due any day and that I was huge, I told her 3 weeks instead of the real 6 weeks. So she didn't feel bad. I am measuring correctly for as far as I am and to be fair I have lost 16lb since I have had gd, so infact I could be even bigger than what I am.
My sil is over from were she lives/works, I havnt seen her for about 2 years as dh went to see her alone as a holiday last year. To get to 34 weeks is a relief for me as we had 3 misscarriages last year. On Sunday morning while coming to see our ds she was asking me how I was seeing as l "look awful" (but I do without makeup) then she brought up the misscarriages and was telling me how they weren't meant to be and I shouldn't let it stay with me I should "forget them and move on now" and take down my hope ornament as it will just remind me. Dh bought me a little wooden statue with hope engraved on it which I thought was a nice gesture from dh.
If one more person tells me that it would be lovely I have a girl I think I might just flip, because aslong as my child is healthy I don't really care.
My mum came over this morning and asked me why I was asleep at 10am on the couch and called me lazy..... It's the 2nd day of my mat leave and I was up about 4 times to go the loo and take my ds too school, she also took offence at me still putting my ds with the child-minder instead of asking her to have him after school. She never had him when I was at work so why be offended now. Plus my friend turned up I made a cup of coffe for her and said help yourself to s biscuit came back to her eating a bag of crisp and biscuits, I don't know why it's bothering me.
I know it's my hormones and being tired plus I have a whole heap of things to do and don't think I will achieve them all I three weeks.