Desperately needing some support, I've found myself pregnant completely unexpectedly - 8 years after my last. Hubby and I have been going through a rough patch - got passionate for the first time in 18 months and got pregnant (coil apparently was dislodged) he blames me for trapping him and whilst I'm desperate for this to work - I'm just feeling so negative - I wouldn't terminate as I've always wanted more children, don't know where to go from here really. I want to enjoy and relish this precious gift but hubby doesn't ....