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LoveLetters · 07/09/2015 05:53

I'm 5 months preg. Third night in a row I'm still awake at 6am because DH decides to come to bed at 4:30 after falling asleep on sofa. Comes in and is so loud and wakes up our 2 yr old. Ive just got him back to sleep and now I'm lying here trying to again myself. Dh now sleeping. Lack of sleep makes me really sick.... This morning when he woke everyone up I went ballistic. He didn't even say sorry just told me to shut up. It may seem minor but the list of inconsiderate stuff like this is continuous, it's making me really wanting him to just leave for a week so I can have a break from him. Am I being over hormonal? Everything he does is irritating,... It's like nails down a chalk board.

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Bejeena · 07/09/2015 05:58

No mine has done this, pregnancy or no pregnancy is not on although mine would be very apologetic if he woke our 2 year old.

If you have to get up in morning before him can you just be extra loud? Then tell him to shut up when he makes a fuss about being woken

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LoveLetters · 07/09/2015 06:00

Yes I have to get our daughter up for school. He does stuff like this all the time. I can't bare inconsiderate people, I'd never to that to him. I'm literally raging right now.

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docmcstuffins1 · 07/09/2015 06:03

I don't think you're acting hormonal, that's really inconsiderate behaviour. I'd be fuming too, especially if DH told me to 'shut up!'.

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LoveLetters · 07/09/2015 07:05

He's still asleep but my daughter just woke up. Time for pay back

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Sallyhasleftthebuilding · 07/09/2015 07:11

Yes be nice and loud! My hubby used to turn the light on when he came to bed... when I was asleep ..

frangipani13 · 07/09/2015 07:13

Give her some saucepans and wooden spoons to play with near the bedroom. If there's somewhere you could go to stay for a few nights for some respite, do you think this would be a wake up call for him?

Every1KnowsJeffHesUsuallyACunt · 07/09/2015 07:23

Have it suddenly come into your head that right now, this very minute, would be an extremely sensible time to hoover in the bedroom.....right next to his face Grin

Sallyhasleftthebuilding · 07/09/2015 07:44

Ignore Everyoneknows .. until m.youtube.com/watch?v=Swc5QF8EQCU You watch this!
Hoover lip suck on youtube!!!

mummyneedinganswers · 07/09/2015 08:49

My dp is a nightmare to sleep beside these days too although it's only recently he was never like this before I think it could be some sort of anxiety that's coming to a head while he sleeps. It's shit and they don't realise how tired we be because of them messing up our sleep x

Every1KnowsJeffHesUsuallyACunt · 07/09/2015 09:09

Sally's completely right! Ignore me and do her idea instead! and post a video Grin

docmcstuffins1 · 07/09/2015 09:13

Hahaha Sally that video just made me spit coffee over my keyboard Grin

Doublebubblebubble · 07/09/2015 09:21

Id say that he sounds very very inconsiderate. My dh is a baker so leaves every morning around 3am. Never once has he woken me or our dd (now 6 and in her own room but our walls are paper thin) up. We have dc2 due 4/10/15 so obviously there will be every chance Il be up with him then but even then he is still quiet as a mouse, checks dd still has her blankets on, etc

Why is he falling asleep in the living room without you?

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LoveLetters · 07/09/2015 10:39

He has always done it since I met him. I made loads of noise but It didn't bother him. When I dropped him to work he didn't even say sorry or goodbye. Just got out of the car and went. Wrong move dk head .... Good luck getting home tonight. I won't b answering my phone

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WhatTheJeffHasGoneOnHere · 07/09/2015 11:28

It's nothing to do with your hormones and everything to do with your arse of a dh.

Thebirdsneedseeds · 07/09/2015 11:32

Good for you. I hope it's a long walk...and it rains...and he's just in his shirt.
What a knob...sleep is sacred. Waking a 2 year old should be a cardinal sin.

ARV1981 · 07/09/2015 11:36

He does sound very inconsiderate.

It was me waking my husband up in the night last night. I just couldn't get back to sleep. But in my defence I am 39 weeks pregnant! I was reading my kindle and he was complaining about the light.... I may have called him "princess"...

Then suddenly remembered it's our 2 year anniversary so snuggled down for a cuddle. I didn't sleep until just before his alarm went off at 6am.

But, I can have a nap this afternoon. Which I fully intend to do.

AlisonWunderland · 07/09/2015 11:38

If he calls for a lift home, don't answer. When he gets himself home and asks where you were, say you turned phone off to try to catch up on the sleep you didn't get last night.
Then give him 2 year old to look after and say you're going for a nap

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LoveLetters · 07/09/2015 18:08

He text me earlier saying "are we still not talking?" I don't think he even sees what is wrong he is that inconsiderate. I've struggled to stay away all day and he will be ringing for a lift soon. I won't be responding, as soon as my son is asleep in going aswell. No way am I making him dinner

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contractor6 · 07/09/2015 18:16

DH would play pc games into the early hours if I didn't stop him sometimes. But I explained to him, I am already suffering from pregnancy anxiety (not even sure I its a thing) and when he stays up late and doesn't have proper sleep I worry he will crash the car in the morning and I'll have to raise child alone. Totally irrational but then I am pregnant. Also works when I want him to confirm if he working late etc. Also pointed out losing sleep makes HG worse and as I lost a huge amount due to sickness he listens. Good luck. Xx

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