Hi I'm new here but have previously used the site for advice. I currently have a beautiful dd who is roughly 20 months and have recently split with her dad. The only issue I've had is I've found out I'm pregnant and DD's dad is definitely the father. I am terrified, I was on the pill so definitely unplanned and I really don't know how to feel. I'm still getting my life back together since the split and have never really had a family to fall back on so I have literally only told babies dad. I guess I'm looking for advice tbh, is a baby really going to be the best thing right now? I'm scared of failing my lo financially and emotionally and I'm terrified if I carry on with my pregnancy that I won't bond with baby, as I had horrible depression the first time around. I don't think I'd even consider having babies dad back as it was a nightmare relationship where he preferred seeing his friends to his child. I just really don't know what to think or what to do, I know if I had this baby I would be completely alone raising them both and I'm terrified of having two small children so dependant on me when I've been finding dd so demanding alone recently. Sorry for the long post 