DH was sick last night - morning sickness

[LoveLetters]

I currently have HG at now 12 weeks. He was sick last night for drinking too much whiskey. This morning I said, times that by 20 and add six weeks of straight sickness, now you know how I feel. His response was "yes well I didn't come and moan to you like a little b*%ch about it did I?"
Do I hit him with a frying pan now or later when I've calmed down

I've just read the thread in relationships also and I honestly think this isn't going to get any better for you.

It's clear by the amount of times your posting on here for advice that you don't feel emotionally strong enough and I don't mean this in the way it's going to sound but you don't sound well yourself op, mentally it's worrying.

I think the best course of action would be to send the kids off to parents if.you can even if just for a few hours and really talk all this through, properly hash it out for the sake of your unborn child and the ones already here, if that doesn't work then I would echo what other posters have said and get out of the relationship and focus on you and your children and get your head straight.

Do u understand what I was trying to get at coneywonder although it all came out wrong

Yeah I do see what you meant. I think that problems aren't being aired and he's obviously not giving a shit about a lot really so your sickness isn't gonna be or any preggo symptom isn't going to be something he's going to give you sympathy for.

Who's idea was the 3rd baby?

If my DH ever used to words 'little bitch' in relation to me it would be the end of our relationship, regardless of anything else going on.

Fair enough if he was your dh u would leave but he's not he's hers and it think instead of people telling her to leave and so on constantly when she isn't listening as u can see by the many posts that maybe she needs help to understand and support to do what's right for her and only she will know what that is. That's why I suggested counselling op obviously loves her dh very much but he's being a prick and she knows that but I'm sure there's a side to him a nice side that only she sees that could be making her stay. There are many issues to be addressed she needs support not people to run the man who she obviously loves into the ground x

And I. Sorry again if jumbled I'm so tired

OP I'm worried to hear that you are still there after the events of last week. You need to put your safety (physical, emotional and mental) first here. He is purposefully making you feel bad (worse) and that is abuse.

I understand where you are coming from mummy but having been in an abusive relationship (thankfully not someone i was married to or had kids with), i really dont think this guy will change. He has cheated, makes her feel like shit and treats her atrociously. Enough already. Its not ok.

I dont think the OP wants advice more than being able to vent.

I agree op should try counselling to help her find some self worth, but wouldnt be bothering with relationship counselling.

But if she isn't wanting to leave she needs to try something