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The. Condom. Slipped. OFF!!!

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Flowermum · 13/11/2006 22:10

Not sure if this is the right place to post this but I have to let off some steam...

I have a lovely yummy 5 month old DD and DP and I have been talking about when we'd have our next. So we decided we'd wait till she was 8months then decide what we were going to do.

So I dutifully let all notions of having another baby go until DD is 8 months. Until Saturday night...

We were doing the business... and something didn't feel right but I left it go till we finished and DP noticed that the condom had slipped off... and well I'm sure you can imagine the rest.

OH THE SHAME!!!

SO anyway I'm not on the pill, I was breastfeeding and was on the mini pill but finished the last pack about three weeks ago. My last period was 23 - 28 october...

So what happens now??? I don't want to tell family because it turns out they're not all that pleased I had DD, I'm only 22, but they love her etc etc.

I'm not panicking too much, this is what i wanted, just not as planned as I wanted. DP is being very relaxed about it, just wants to wait and see and not telk about it till we know whether I am or not.

I think I'm looking for hugs!

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malodorantemelly · 13/11/2006 22:11

Well if you are, then 3 months earlier than planned can't be that bad??

hairymclary · 13/11/2006 22:13

it'll be fine. if you are and you're happy about that then just go with it.
at the end of the day it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.

one thing though, how do condoms just slip off???????

misdee · 13/11/2006 22:13

well you dont know if you are yet. whats 3months, really? dont tell people anything till you know i guess.

lulumama · 13/11/2006 22:17

you will know in a week or so if you are pregnant......

not up to your family how many and when you have kids..!

((((hug))))

WestCountryLass · 13/11/2006 22:20

(((hugs)))

If you are you are, you'll know soon enough

HappyMumof2 · 13/11/2006 22:21

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emzickle · 13/11/2006 22:22

oh hugs to you...

i know how wierd this must feel for you, i had to sculk into the dr's 3 weeks post partum and get the MAP... grrr

good luck, hope it turns out the way you want it to x

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Flowermum · 13/11/2006 22:24

Yes, I'm trying o not think about it, I'm sure I'm not... I'm just not sure if anything leaked out though.

How gross is this?!?

Hairymclary...it was an extended, energetic, yeh we're comfortable having lots of sex again after DD, session...

Just going to crawl under the table now and die a little...

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emzickle · 13/11/2006 22:26

so how soon after you think you may have concieved can you test?

lulumama · 13/11/2006 22:27

approx 2 weeks after doing the deed......

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Flowermum · 13/11/2006 22:28

Well I'm just not sure now...

If I have to wait till my next period then that ages away.

Should I just forget about it? You know, go down the denial route?

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MamaApronstrings · 13/11/2006 22:28

hugs - my mum wasn't pleased the last three times i got pregnant - but there you go...wishing you the best - keep us posted

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Flowermum · 13/11/2006 22:28

Oh two weeks! Right well I can wait that long if I have to.

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Uwilalalalalala · 13/11/2006 22:31

Maybe the condom was too big for his willy?

iPodthereforiPoor · 13/11/2006 22:33

MAP or emergency coil - but as youy've not done this then i guess you are letting nature go the way it intended.

I remeber sitting at the traffic lights infron tof the Drs thinking about gouing in for mergency contrception and decided to chance my luck - DS is lovely!

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Flowermum · 13/11/2006 22:33

Leave him alone! He's a trojan! With a lovely willy.

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hairymclary · 13/11/2006 22:36

uwila,i was going to say that but didn't lol

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Flowermum · 13/11/2006 22:39

iPod, thats a bit what I was like yesterday, although I dont have easy access to emergency contraception. I guess what will be will be.

And because I've said it out loud now, it probably won't be!

Hairy sssshhhhhh! Don't be mean to my man! He's very big you know!

I mean he;s 6'4". Obviously.

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hairymclary · 13/11/2006 22:40

lol well next time sellotape it on, just to be sure

Uwilalalalalala · 13/11/2006 22:43

Do tall men have big willies? I maean really it seems the problem was circumference?

emzickle · 13/11/2006 22:44

6 foot 4? no wonder your worried, if he's been putting the condom over his head, your buggered love x

Kyte · 13/11/2006 22:46

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Flowermum · 13/11/2006 22:47

Sellotape might scratch... Would a big bow do? OR maybe double sided sticky tape?

Also, I'd just like to point out, his length and girth are both very sufficient.

He's sleeping on the couch now... Oh but the batteries are gone in the camera! Dammit!

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Flowermum · 13/11/2006 22:48

Holy crap Kyte! I do feel a bit better now!

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TyrNannyOgg · 13/11/2006 22:49

I had my first at 22 and my parents were furious, outraged etc, beca\use in their heads I was still about 14.

but once I had the baby, in their eyes I had become an adult, and they didn't bat an eyelid at the second.

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