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advice needed. slight TMI :(

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HotFudge87 · 19/05/2015 09:45

So. I'm 6+4 and just been to the loo, wiped, and there was a tiny (and i mean tiny) streak of blood iny discharge (really sorry for detail!)
Is this normal? Assuming its nothing to worry about? Or should I call midwife? I'm not due to see her til 10 weeks. I did go to circuits last night, didn't work flat out, but wondered if that could have caused it?

Any advice hugely appreciated :) x

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jimijack · 20/05/2015 17:19

If it's a small amount it's a watch and see. Internal scan may be booked at epau if there is one near you.
However, there is nothing that can be done.
Harsh but true from experience. It helps to know for sure though.

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HotFudge87 · 20/05/2015 17:25

Its a lot more than spotting now :( had a couple of 'gushes' (not massive amounts but enough to make me have to change my underwear with a wad of tissue) and passed a good sized clot too :( I've come to terms that its gone and I'm just going to ride this out. I'm still living in a tiny bit of hope but know that I'm going to be told the worst tomorrow. Its just one of those things :( life is cruel at times! X

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RolyPolierThanThou · 20/05/2015 17:31

Flowers I'm sorry you're going through this. Be kind to yourself. Have you got someone to support you irl?

scarednoob · 20/05/2015 17:50

you poor thing, massive hugs. I am so sorry to read this.

It could still be lots of other things, but I think you are right to try and come to terms with the worst, as then it will be easier to deal with whatever happens. also remember that there is absolutely nothing you could have done differently, or could do differently - if something has gone wrong, it was out of your control.

thinking of you and wishing for good news tomorrow x

Solasum · 20/05/2015 17:53

I had this OP and my son is now running round cackling. Fingers crossed it is the same for you

TheImprobableGirl · 20/05/2015 17:54

Life is terribly cruel hotfudge I really hope everything isn't as it seems, but there are some lovely people around that have gone through similar and same experiences. For me it would help to talk it through. Hope you have someone that can go with you, Dh etc Thanks Thanks

Lilliana · 20/05/2015 18:19

I really hope you have good news tomorrow but if it is the worst there is a thread on the mc board called headwreak and hope. You're more than welcome to come and have a chat about anything - no judgement but lots of lovely ladies there who give lots of support and practical advice. Fx you don't need it.

Amyyy27 · 20/05/2015 18:32

Oh hotfudge I hope you have great real life support. Life is such a bitch. If you need to talk these some great boards on MN with fantastic people. Also feel free to message me. Sending you love. Really hope it's not as it seems and you have some positive news tomorrow Flowers

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HotFudge87 · 20/05/2015 18:47

I do have a fantastic DH whose been great through this. Just sucks being away from family when all you want is a mum hug!
Thank you all so much for your kind words and support. Really does mean a lot :) xxx

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luckiestgirlintheworld · 20/05/2015 18:51

Good luck tomorrow OP

Lilliana · 21/05/2015 07:18

Thinking of you today

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HotFudge87 · 21/05/2015 07:50

Thank you Liliana :) just getting ready to go. So nervous! X

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Amyyy27 · 21/05/2015 07:51

Thinking of you hotfudge x

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HotFudge87 · 21/05/2015 09:55

Its definitely gone :( they did a pregnancy test and was negative so they didn't even scan me. Can't believe how much this has got to me :( it wasn't a planned pregnancy, I was almost adamant I didn't want any more. But was so happy thinking we were giving DD a little brother or sister and expanding our family! On the slightly brighter side, I can now start uni this September as planned. Still gutted tho!

That k you to everyone who has given advice, kind words and support. You really have helped me :) xxx

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Amyyy27 · 21/05/2015 10:07

hotfudge I am so sorry for your loss :( Sending my love and hugs xx

scatterbrainedlass · 21/05/2015 10:12

So sorry for your loss hotfudge, I came across this post yesterday and have been thinking of you since, really hoping it was nothing. I'm glad you have a supportive DH, also please know that we are here too, I know a few people have said there are some great boards on here for support and sympathy after a MC. Hugs xxxx

gennibugs · 21/05/2015 11:32

I'm so sorry to read this Sad

scarednoob · 21/05/2015 11:56

oh bless you, I was so hoping for good news. really sorry to hear this. try and spoil yourself as much as you can, big hugs xx

Roseybee10 · 21/05/2015 12:05

So sorry hon. It's an awful thing to go through. Xx

Sallyingforth · 21/05/2015 12:14

HotFudge I've just shed a tear reading this, so sorry for you.
Better luck next time!

Lilliana · 21/05/2015 12:55

So sorry, I was really hoping you would get good news today. Look after yourself and there's always people here if you need a chat anytime

TheImprobableGirl · 21/05/2015 15:03

Really good that you have managed to look at the other things that you will be able to do. It is natural and positive to mourn for the loss of your baby, but it is also positive to bring your mindset back to pre-pregnancy. Thinking of you here x

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