My MIL has always been overbearing but now I'm pregnant its even worst i suffer from bad anxiety and her over involvment is making it allot worst. she always turned up without calling first my partner works 6 days a week and she turns up on his one day of every week but stays all day and night, or comes ay 9 at night when we have work we struggle to get time just us as shes always here she's borrowed my BIL's keys before when we have been at work and brought and changed all our furniture to furniture she likes, my partner spoke to her and she said she would come less and call but she did that for a week and now she still just turns up all the time but trys to buy us over so she'll make an exscuse and turn up with a bag of food shopping, random things shes brought wich just get horded, toys for the animals, were in a small one bed flat and she turns up with furnishings and dogs beds and say oh thought u could use a few bits ill just come in for a cup of tea and stays hours. ive stopped working now due to a tricky 1st trimester so now she turns up in the day or calls twice for my partner even though she knows he works, my partner spoke to her last week again and she said she would call first and yet again she isnt. On sunday I spoke to her again about buying us things and that we appreciate it but were not comfortable with it, she wanted to buy he babys furniture and moses basket and I told her I want to pick out those things so not to worry and the next day she brought a moses basket. she also makes me feel uncomfortable that she constantly wants to no personal things in our life like our finances etc. My partners spoke to her about turning up ive spoke to her that were uncomfortable ive started not to answer the door in the day but its getting worst what else can I do we appreciate that she cares and trying to help but were adults we have our own home and a baby on the way this is ridiculus?...