I stopped taking the pill at the end of November, and expected to get pregnant instantly like I did the first time. Then, I had been on the pill for 15 years and when I stopped I had my first period 28 days later, and then was pregnant the next month, then 28 days after ds was born I got my period and started taking the pill again. Now, I've stopped taking it again to try for No. 2, and my cycles have been 35, 38 and 39 days long, and so far no luck getting pregnant. Does anyone have any ideas as to why I've suddenly ended up with irregular/long cycles? Do you think I'm having an early menopause? If I go to the Doctors now will they think I'm stupid for not leaving it longer?