Just found out I'm pg

[sharonthewaspandthewineywall]

And I don't know what to do. I thought I really wanted another but now all I want to do is cry. My parents will tell me I'm stupid to have another and will be really negative and I'm so worried about telling my 10 year old DD she will be heartbroken. She has previously said if I got pregnant she would run away/kill herself/live at my parents etc. this is all making me feel sick.
I'd appreciate a bit of hand holding

Oh you poor thing. You have only just found out so you need to allow yourself a little time to let it sink in. Your parents' opinion is largely irrelevant. You have to decided what is right for you, not them! And your daughter, well it seems like there might be a little more to that, but Children can be very dramatic and it's very possible that if you present it to her as something positive and happy that she will come to perceive it as such. Good luck and I know it must feel overwhelming now but try and be calm and take it easy and allow yourself to process it xxx

I'm crap at advice but will hold your hand

What makes you think people won't be pleased?

By people I mean your parents?

I'm sure your DD might change her mine? Maybe she'll like the idea of having a baby brother/sister?

And congratulations btw

Have your parents been feeding DD the idea that she would be usurped if you had another? And offering to take her in? Congratulations on your pg!