Hi all
Just wondering if anyone had been in similar situation and had any experiences to share, as I can't decide what to do!
I'm currently 36+6 with my first baby. A scan yesterday showed baby is breech, although he was facing away so they couldn't see his legs or feet. I'm guessing this means he's not footling breech, but they didn't really tell me anything other than "breech". Baby's current weight is estimated 7.1 lbs.
Had a fairly useless appointment today with a consultant who just whizzed through options of ECV (manual turning) or planned CS in about 3 minutes flat and asked me to decide on the spot (she didn't examine me or anything)! I didn't decide, but she still went ahead and called the hospital to get me an ECV date. They also took a load of blood tests for liver function as I've been itchy recently (could indicate obstetric cholestasis). I should get those blood results tomorrow.
I was originally planning to birth in the MLU, as intervention free as possible as my pregnancy has always been low risk and straightforward so far. I'm not really an advocate of natural birth for any particularly deep reasons, other than it seems more pleasant for both me and baby and means we get to go home from the hospital as soon as is possible!
Other than a long stay in hospital and painful weeks of recovery, I don't have any major worries about having a planned CS. To be honest, I've heard a lot more positive stories about it than negative. I've also heard lots of negative stories about ECV. Basically I don't like the thought of it. or the potential risks. I find having the midwife try to feel the position of the baby very painful and keep imagining an ECV will be 10x worse. Plus I have a very small and hard bump - could that make any different to the success of the ECV? It seems like the midwife has to dig really hard to feel anything at all! Baby is normally very active, always pushing and stretching and moving from side to side. I wonder if that is him trying to turn?
I can't decide what to do. Should I refuse the ECV? But somehow that feels like giving up, not even trying. I worry that I'm talking myself out of the ECV because the CS seems preferable to the pain and unknowns of a vaginal birth. Basically it is the "unknowns" that scare me. If I knew the ECV would work, I might think it worth the pain and risks. If I knew a vaginal birth would be reasonably straightforward, I would try really hard to make sure I could have one. I just hate not knowing! It also seems weird that they haven't properly assessed my chances with the ECV before booking me in for one. I thought they would need to do a more detailed scan or feel my stomach or something?
Sorry this has ended up so long! Would love to hear from anyone who's been in a similar situation.
Thanks in advance.