I'm 7 weeks and having a bit of a freak out 
DH and I aren't particularly financially stable. Getting pregnant came as a bit of a surprise as we've been trying for a long time but Ive got PCOS so it was always going to take a while.
Last summer DH quit his well paid job to go freelance and in the hope that another full time job would come up. His full time job was making him incredibly unhappy and miserable. Whilst going freelance, a few companies shafted him and we are owed quite a bit of money from a company who went bankrupt - so we won't see this for a long time! He also was struggling with credit card repayments so we approached the debt charity to help us out. This has helped no end although obviously destroyed his credit score.
My situation is that im about to lose my full time job - Ive only been employed for as long as the show (I work in theatre) lasts. I have freelance work to go back to which is fine, but I lose any maternity from the company. I will only get SMP which isn't a great deal.
Now, I also have 1 and a half horses and 2 dogs. The half horse is a shared ownership between myself and a friend. We haven't had him long and im panicking that I can't afford him. Ive aired my financial worries with my friend but she doesn't seem to listen. My 1 horse and my dogs are my priority over the half horse when the baby comes along.
Argh! Help! Is everyone financially stable with their kids? Or before they had kids? We also rent our house - it's 3 bedrooms, near a station and near amazing dog walking so we're a bit hesitant to move right now :( our landlords are also really lovely and haven't put our rent up since we've moved her which is nearly 3 years now.
Thanks for reading xx