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Is it time to take a break?

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beclou94 · 10/03/2015 11:22

Well, after a week of major ups and major downs, I've hit rock bottom. Yesterday I got my clear BFP on an early predictor test, and a faint BFP on an IC. I was over the moon, so was OH. Woke today and tested with a cheap test from my local chemist Acutest - Early Sign it's called. BFN, not even a hint of a line. I'm absolutely heartbroken, we've been trying for nearly a year now with no luck, so to have a positive test yesterday was beyond amazing! I'm actually debating having a break from it all, as I can't take this much more. I'm on the sofa today, full of flu, no motivation, I actually feel so sorry for my LO because we haven't been out in days Sad OH works away, so he's never here in the week, he's not even back this weekend. Sad I just really needed a rant, so if you've read this far - thank you! X

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lexyloub · 10/03/2015 11:28

You can get a false negative but you can't get a false positive so judging on yesterday's tests you are definitely pregnant. Don't keep testing you'll only wind yourself up, some tests aren't as sensitive as others hence why 1 might show bfn. If your still unsure take the tests to your gp and ask them to test or do bloods to confirm ( I suspect gp will just accept your 2 bfp than the 1 bfn) congratulations Flowers

Number3cometome · 10/03/2015 11:29

Ahh come on now, you aren't out until the witch arrived!

This happened to me, I had a month where I got a line, then nothing, then bleeding, following month BFP and now 21+2.

There is always hope, don't give up!

happygojo · 10/03/2015 11:31

and breathe..... what cycle day are you. Remember you can get false negatives but NOT false positives so it looks like you have HCG in your system which means an egg has been fertilised.... which means that right now you are pregnant

You could just be early testing ok.... don't panic yet. Maybe get a first response for tomorrow and try that? I got a whole range of lines on my tests from squinty to a bold as brass line.

Sending positive vibes and don't beat yourself up

Number3cometome · 10/03/2015 11:38

I wouldn't trust anything except a FRER but that's just me Grin

Oh I should have said you may have ovulated late - I did, my day 21 progesterone tests came back crap (10) so I was sure I was out.

But alas the little boy kicking me now tells me that I just ovulated late Smile

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beclou94 · 10/03/2015 11:43

Thank you ladies. You've given me some hope! I've booked a doctors appointment, but he can't see me until the end of the month! The wait for my GP is ridiculous. I'm debating going to a walk-in clinic at the weekend. I'm cycle day 34 now, I've never had a cycle this long before! (Apart from when I was pregnant with my daughter).. I was told I had PCOS in January, because a scan picked up a few cysts, and I was having a bleed every 2 weeks, but since leaving the hospital I've had normal cycles, no 2 week bleeding! That's why I really thought this month was it. I've been spotting since cycle day 30 (Friday), but it's extremely light, only when I wipe, and pinkish in colour. I was thinking it could be breakthrough bleeding, as I should be on now! Probably just me being hopeful though.. I think my body is just totally messed up Confused xx

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beclou94 · 10/03/2015 11:46

I feel like everywhere I look there's a pregnancy announcement, or a newborn baby, set me off just looking through Facebook this morning :( OH is hopeful, but he always is! This will be his first baby, as my LO is from previous. X

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applecore0317 · 10/03/2015 11:55

Can you not ring up your doctors first thing in the morning and get a same day appointment? or ask to speak with the doctor on the phone?

m33r · 10/03/2015 12:20

Instead of getting an appt with doc, get one with nurse. They are usually much easier to get ime and you're only looking for a blood test.

Not over til af arrives; hang in there Flowers

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beclou94 · 10/03/2015 12:21

Well, I think AF has just arrived :( glad I know now, but absolutely deverstated that it's another month with no baby. :'( thank you ladies. X

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PenguinTuxedo · 10/03/2015 12:28

Are you sure it's AF? Because a positive test is positive, you can't get a false negative! The other one which showed negative might not be as sensitive. If you're only bleeding a little, could be implantation bleeding?

lexyloub · 10/03/2015 12:50

Ring your local epu for advice if you've had 2 bfp then you are definitely pregnant. It could possibly be that it's a chemical pregnancy or you are miscarrying but as pp said could be implantation bleeding. Definitely get checked out you don't get a bfp if your not pregnant

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beclou94 · 10/03/2015 13:23

It's red in colour, and getting heavier :( I shall ring and see what they say, thank you. X

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